Liar? (A rant)
Feb. 3rd, 2013 01:30 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
graffiti_marinaSo I guess I’ve been duped. Is that the word? Because it sounds stupid.
Carl, Carl, Carl. I know he won’t see this entry so I could spell his name correctly but choose not to anyways lol. Tammy has told me that he’s been lying about stuff ever since he walked in this building. What I didn’t know is that apparently his grandma died…..three different times. And I think he was talking about the same one. I know straight up that he lied about how he got his black eye. (Why tell me you got into a bar fight but then tell our boss that "I fell") I mean seriously? That’s something a battered girlfriend says. A cheap little lie. There have been times he’s told our old boss that he had to stop somewhere to finish up some security work, only for our old boss to call over there and HE’S NOT THERE. AND NEVER SHOWED UP. So who knows where he went. Tammy and our old boss called him out on his shit but he never gotten written up. And when we moved to the other room, he got away with a lot more because our current boss is an idiot. She just NOW realizes, that half of the stuff he told her was full of shit. All the times he has been almost 30 minutes late; he was taking a girlfriend to work, he had a job interview and they decided to call him at 7, his car broke down (that I can believe because it’s a piece of junk), he overslept, constantly was late paying bills because he wouldn’t get his pay fixed, so the Shirt had to get involved multiple times, had his pay taken out in a chunk because he failed two classes and didn’t tell anybody that he wanted to drop them….so you know it didn’t get done and….blah blah blah blah blah. One of the times he was late as hell because he took his girlfriend and her kid to his school…..like super late. She stayed in to chit chat and of course lost track of time. And instead of her dropping him off (because, you know, she had just happened to have her license revoked) she had to be taken back to her house and then he drive all the way back to work. Oh, and I think he forgot his ID that day too so he had to go back. Didn’t call, because they would have understood. He just showed up and said "Sorry." What the hell dude….
The last thing that pissed me off was what happened last week. On the 25th of Jan a few people died in a car accident. He pleaded with our old boss that he knew two guys and one girl who died. And by the way, did not mention to anyone that the second guy he knew that died was an old friend that passed away from cancer and NOT a car accident. (I can’t find his death in the obituaries….just saying). But anyways, he wanted to go to the funeral. Old boss let him go, but old boss had to leave around the time of the funeral and saw him riding around town. WTF? And no idea who’s funeral was on Monday. The girl’s funeral was on WEDNESDAY that week. Then he told our new boss on Tuesday that he knew the guy that died in the crash as well and wanted to go to his funeral. Current boss says "Go to the funeral and come right back." He comes back then asked for the rest of the week off after the funeral. My boss tells him "No." and that she’s been skeptical about all the stuff that’s been happening and pretty much called him a liar and told him she doesn’t trust him anymore. Cue the toddler sized tantrum he throws and threatens to go to the higher-ups. Refusing to do anything but whine about why can’t he go and that he’s emotionally unstable to be at work. Seriously dude?? SERIOUSLY??? Refused to do ANYTHING but complain. Then told me that he’s not doing anything anymore because if she’s going to call him a liar and lazy and all this stuff than he is going to act like it. Why would you let someone like her get to you????? Ughh!! I don’t understand! I honestly tried to reason with him and tell his subtly "What would make her think that you’re lying about anything? What do you think you have done that would make her think that way?"
And do you know what he told me??
"I’ve done NOTHING."
That’s right. He has done absolutely nothing to make her think of him as nothing more than a liar and lazy. Good Lord. I was done after that. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped in the first place and refuses to take responsibility. He’ll learn but it’ll be a long and hard road until you can own up to your mistakes and quit being a little bitch! I told my husband this funeral issue and he was pretty much like "No offense, but I doubt he knows these people. He probably met them at a bar. It’s a whole different thing if a family member or childhood friend dies and not somebody you met a few weeks ago at the bar."
He moved to another building like really quick but she even told me that she was writing him up. I wonder if it even matters anymore now that he’s gone. It sucks for him because she called over to his new boss and told him he’s a trouble maker, but apparently the new guy doesn’t care. He fucked himself over pretty bad and practically diminished any credibility he had. It’s sad because Tammy was warned when he came over for the interview. Oh well. He says he’s done and is planning on getting out and I hope he does. I was trying to talk him out of it last week, but fuck it. He never listened to me and last thing I want is a guy I have to constantly watch over under me. Smh. I think another par that sucks for him is that he’ll do anything for a girl he likes…that’s gotten him in trouble too lol. And I’ll be fucking pissed if he gets an assignment before me because I guess that’s the new thing…giving people assignments who fuck up all the time.
Ok, this rant is officially done. I am the only one in the office and it’s a blessing and a curse. I came in a little late and took a nice long lunch but the calls faaaaaaaaaaak! I have to fix some mistakes I told people yesterday and send out some emails. Oh and by the way, for anyone who works for a company that mainly, if at all deals with computers. Please for the love of God DO NOT DOWNLOAD THINGS. Someone decided they would try and download this decoder thing I don’t even know what it is but apparently this program issues made up iTunes cards that you can redeem from the website. Well, this bitch had a virus and now I have to send shit off to big wigs. I’m not aware of the process but it has to get done 🙁 And my supervisor is such an idiot that her nonsensical explanations did me no good and and stayed longer at work than I ever plan to. She’s pissing me off again too. I’m really glad she’s retiring. I’m anticipating leaving (which won’t happen for months) but I can’t help but to shake negativity all over it. I don’t know if it’s worse here now or if it’ll turn completely to crap when I move to this next place.
But to make myself feel better there are some things I can at least anticipate. My mom is coming in a couple weeks, umm let’s hope this month and next month flies by so I can gtfo. I think my in-laws are taking all of us on a cruise, but o
nce again we don’t know anything ahead of time so it’s completely up in the air. Hawaii in probably September. Umm actually, that’s the only thing I’m anticipating. I don’t care about anything else before hahaha. Except for my son’s 3rd birthday but I’m not exactly anticipating that 🙁 I don’t want him to grow up anymore. My favorite lulzcow has been using her twitter again. I don’t make fun of her at all, she kind of does it all on her own.
A couple things come to mind. First, another dream. I dreamt that I left my son in the car at like 730 in the morning. I wasn’t that freaked out because it’s nice and cool in the morning. But I remembered and took him to daycare. And it was this funky weird ass daycare that was somebody’s house. I don’t think we ever went inside because it was so skeptical. And I took my son with me to go running then go to work lol. The other thing is kind of serious. I’ve been thinking…..I do compare myself to other people a lot and there really isn’t a need for me to. While I’m grateful for the things that I do have and for people who care about me, I still think that my worth isn’t as good? shall I say compared to some people. Like, I feel accomplished that I’ve been able to travel, live on my own and take care of my child and that I have a job. But (and I catch myself doing this) somebody I went to high school with has already traveled to Europe or has a nicer car….something along those lines. And I need to remind myself that doing those things or having those items doesn’t make me better than someone or that someone is better than me. I know some people who work at fast food or retail and they love it. Doesn’t mean that life took a crap on them or that they’re stuck and their life sucks. It’s probably how they want it and are happy the way things are for them. I need to start appreciating the little things more. Which is why I don’t want to be so anxious about moving. I’ll probably go somewhere nice but hate where I work. I don’t know…it was just something on my mind. I guess I started thinking about this because lulzcow was "giving up" on her dreams to Japan and I’m sitting here like "I could fly there next month if I wanted to." But I’m not thinking that I’m better than her or if I ever go to rub it in her face. Idk, I’m getting tired of writing and can’t really explain what’s on my mind anymore. Peace.
Carl, Carl, Carl. I know he won’t see this entry so I could spell his name correctly but choose not to anyways lol. Tammy has told me that he’s been lying about stuff ever since he walked in this building. What I didn’t know is that apparently his grandma died…..three different times. And I think he was talking about the same one. I know straight up that he lied about how he got his black eye. (Why tell me you got into a bar fight but then tell our boss that "I fell") I mean seriously? That’s something a battered girlfriend says. A cheap little lie. There have been times he’s told our old boss that he had to stop somewhere to finish up some security work, only for our old boss to call over there and HE’S NOT THERE. AND NEVER SHOWED UP. So who knows where he went. Tammy and our old boss called him out on his shit but he never gotten written up. And when we moved to the other room, he got away with a lot more because our current boss is an idiot. She just NOW realizes, that half of the stuff he told her was full of shit. All the times he has been almost 30 minutes late; he was taking a girlfriend to work, he had a job interview and they decided to call him at 7, his car broke down (that I can believe because it’s a piece of junk), he overslept, constantly was late paying bills because he wouldn’t get his pay fixed, so the Shirt had to get involved multiple times, had his pay taken out in a chunk because he failed two classes and didn’t tell anybody that he wanted to drop them….so you know it didn’t get done and….blah blah blah blah blah. One of the times he was late as hell because he took his girlfriend and her kid to his school…..like super late. She stayed in to chit chat and of course lost track of time. And instead of her dropping him off (because, you know, she had just happened to have her license revoked) she had to be taken back to her house and then he drive all the way back to work. Oh, and I think he forgot his ID that day too so he had to go back. Didn’t call, because they would have understood. He just showed up and said "Sorry." What the hell dude….
The last thing that pissed me off was what happened last week. On the 25th of Jan a few people died in a car accident. He pleaded with our old boss that he knew two guys and one girl who died. And by the way, did not mention to anyone that the second guy he knew that died was an old friend that passed away from cancer and NOT a car accident. (I can’t find his death in the obituaries….just saying). But anyways, he wanted to go to the funeral. Old boss let him go, but old boss had to leave around the time of the funeral and saw him riding around town. WTF? And no idea who’s funeral was on Monday. The girl’s funeral was on WEDNESDAY that week. Then he told our new boss on Tuesday that he knew the guy that died in the crash as well and wanted to go to his funeral. Current boss says "Go to the funeral and come right back." He comes back then asked for the rest of the week off after the funeral. My boss tells him "No." and that she’s been skeptical about all the stuff that’s been happening and pretty much called him a liar and told him she doesn’t trust him anymore. Cue the toddler sized tantrum he throws and threatens to go to the higher-ups. Refusing to do anything but whine about why can’t he go and that he’s emotionally unstable to be at work. Seriously dude?? SERIOUSLY??? Refused to do ANYTHING but complain. Then told me that he’s not doing anything anymore because if she’s going to call him a liar and lazy and all this stuff than he is going to act like it. Why would you let someone like her get to you????? Ughh!! I don’t understand! I honestly tried to reason with him and tell his subtly "What would make her think that you’re lying about anything? What do you think you have done that would make her think that way?"
And do you know what he told me??
"I’ve done NOTHING."
That’s right. He has done absolutely nothing to make her think of him as nothing more than a liar and lazy. Good Lord. I was done after that. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped in the first place and refuses to take responsibility. He’ll learn but it’ll be a long and hard road until you can own up to your mistakes and quit being a little bitch! I told my husband this funeral issue and he was pretty much like "No offense, but I doubt he knows these people. He probably met them at a bar. It’s a whole different thing if a family member or childhood friend dies and not somebody you met a few weeks ago at the bar."
He moved to another building like really quick but she even told me that she was writing him up. I wonder if it even matters anymore now that he’s gone. It sucks for him because she called over to his new boss and told him he’s a trouble maker, but apparently the new guy doesn’t care. He fucked himself over pretty bad and practically diminished any credibility he had. It’s sad because Tammy was warned when he came over for the interview. Oh well. He says he’s done and is planning on getting out and I hope he does. I was trying to talk him out of it last week, but fuck it. He never listened to me and last thing I want is a guy I have to constantly watch over under me. Smh. I think another par that sucks for him is that he’ll do anything for a girl he likes…that’s gotten him in trouble too lol. And I’ll be fucking pissed if he gets an assignment before me because I guess that’s the new thing…giving people assignments who fuck up all the time.
Ok, this rant is officially done. I am the only one in the office and it’s a blessing and a curse. I came in a little late and took a nice long lunch but the calls faaaaaaaaaaak! I have to fix some mistakes I told people yesterday and send out some emails. Oh and by the way, for anyone who works for a company that mainly, if at all deals with computers. Please for the love of God DO NOT DOWNLOAD THINGS. Someone decided they would try and download this decoder thing I don’t even know what it is but apparently this program issues made up iTunes cards that you can redeem from the website. Well, this bitch had a virus and now I have to send shit off to big wigs. I’m not aware of the process but it has to get done 🙁 And my supervisor is such an idiot that her nonsensical explanations did me no good and and stayed longer at work than I ever plan to. She’s pissing me off again too. I’m really glad she’s retiring. I’m anticipating leaving (which won’t happen for months) but I can’t help but to shake negativity all over it. I don’t know if it’s worse here now or if it’ll turn completely to crap when I move to this next place.
But to make myself feel better there are some things I can at least anticipate. My mom is coming in a couple weeks, umm let’s hope this month and next month flies by so I can gtfo. I think my in-laws are taking all of us on a cruise, but o
nce again we don’t know anything ahead of time so it’s completely up in the air. Hawaii in probably September. Umm actually, that’s the only thing I’m anticipating. I don’t care about anything else before hahaha. Except for my son’s 3rd birthday but I’m not exactly anticipating that 🙁 I don’t want him to grow up anymore. My favorite lulzcow has been using her twitter again. I don’t make fun of her at all, she kind of does it all on her own.
A couple things come to mind. First, another dream. I dreamt that I left my son in the car at like 730 in the morning. I wasn’t that freaked out because it’s nice and cool in the morning. But I remembered and took him to daycare. And it was this funky weird ass daycare that was somebody’s house. I don’t think we ever went inside because it was so skeptical. And I took my son with me to go running then go to work lol. The other thing is kind of serious. I’ve been thinking…..I do compare myself to other people a lot and there really isn’t a need for me to. While I’m grateful for the things that I do have and for people who care about me, I still think that my worth isn’t as good? shall I say compared to some people. Like, I feel accomplished that I’ve been able to travel, live on my own and take care of my child and that I have a job. But (and I catch myself doing this) somebody I went to high school with has already traveled to Europe or has a nicer car….something along those lines. And I need to remind myself that doing those things or having those items doesn’t make me better than someone or that someone is better than me. I know some people who work at fast food or retail and they love it. Doesn’t mean that life took a crap on them or that they’re stuck and their life sucks. It’s probably how they want it and are happy the way things are for them. I need to start appreciating the little things more. Which is why I don’t want to be so anxious about moving. I’ll probably go somewhere nice but hate where I work. I don’t know…it was just something on my mind. I guess I started thinking about this because lulzcow was "giving up" on her dreams to Japan and I’m sitting here like "I could fly there next month if I wanted to." But I’m not thinking that I’m better than her or if I ever go to rub it in her face. Idk, I’m getting tired of writing and can’t really explain what’s on my mind anymore. Peace.
